While the material circumstances of people has been improved sharply, the mental values showed a tendency to become marginalized. However, there is no doubt that love is the greatest and most powerful one among a variety of emotional values. The importance of love has been emphasized throughout the human's history. Mahatma Gandhi(1869 - 1948) said that "the power based on love is a thousand times more effective and permanent than the one derived from fear of punishment." Also, Jim Morrison mentioned about love like this - "...That's what real love amounts to - letting a person be what he really is." The power of love makes people unbelievably stronger, inspired, incredibly happy, deathly sorrowful, and even takes their lives or murder others. Undeniably, love exerts a strong influence on human. Even love is able to "transcends dimensions of time and space", just as Dr. Brand said. Though it "is not something we invented", "it's observable, it's powerful." Therefore, I think that people should know how to cultivate the emotion to the true meaning by practicing it, not considering it as a temporarily consumed type.
Nonetheless, most contemporary men do not seem to know how to love someone a long while and desirable. They tend not to be able to improve the emotion of love, and the tendency of the people is taking it lightly. According to an article about social indicator in Korea, (2002) divorce rate in Korea is three times more than ten years ago. Under this circumstance, I suggest that in order to love someone successfully, you should keep these two terms: to keep pace with your lover, and to communicate constantly with him. This essay analyses why you should keep pace with your lover scientifically. Then it explores the necessity of communication, proper conversational skills.
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- http://article.joins.com/news/article/article.asp?total_id=273898
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