First Draft Introduction

As the material circumstances of people has been improved, the mental values becomes considered as important. Among a variety of emotional values, most people consider love to be the greatest and most powerful one. The importance of love has been emphasized throughout the human's history. Mahatma Gandhi(1869 - 1948) said that power based on love is a thousand times more effective and permanent than the one derived from fear of punishment. Also Jim Morrison mentioned about love like this - "...That's what real love amounts to - letting a person be what he really is." The power of love makes people unbelievably stronger, inspired, incredibly happy, deathly sorrowful, and even takes their own lives or murder others. Undeniably, love exerts a strong influence on human. Therefore, people should know how to cultivate the emotion to the true meaning by practicing it, not considering it as a temporarily consumed type.

Nonetheless, most contemporary men do not seem to know how to love someone a long while and desirably. They tend not to be able to improve the emotion of love, and the tendency of the people is towards take it lightly. According to an article about social indicator in Korea,(2002) divorce rate in Korea is three times more than 10 years ago. Under this circumstance, I suggest that in order to love someone successfully, you should keep these two terms: to keep pace with your lover, and to communicate constantly with him. This essay analyses why you should keep pace with your lover scientifically. Then it explores the necessity of communication, and proper conversational skills.